Have you stepped up into the responsibility and leadership directing your family? Or are you trapped in the beliefs, limitations and projected ideas of your birth family?
Do you make decisions for your family confidently or is there a battle inside your head every moment like in that Pixar movie “Inside Out.”
This may seem like a bit of an odd topic, however every week I coach women on how to step into their personal power, that is, their ability to make decisions for themselves and their family and the importance of this.
We are all the result of our programming – until we choose something different.
We all have a story from our childhood and depending on the level of pain or pleasure your story has will determine whether you want to recreate that same experience for your children or whether you will have turned your back on your story and are creating another.
What if you could be in control of what you are creating consciously all the time. Guess what! You can! At any given moment you can make an empowered choice for your family.
The moment that you decide to enter a committed relationship and bring children into the world you create your own family, and guess what it is your choice and your responsibility to lead that relationship for the next umpteen years. Or at least until your children are off your hands and you can enjoy your quiet days of retirement.
Therefore I challenge you to ask yourself, whose leadership and influence are you acting on? Are you creating for yourself and your family the values, morals and memories that YOU want or are you stuck in a pattern of conforming or recreating a program that you birth family had for you? Perhaps it’s your partner that is stuck in the cycle of repetition from his/her childhood and it’s playing out in your family unit.
Guess what, it’s OK to make your own choices, and you DO NOT need the approval of you birth family before moving forward with your decisions. Stepping into your own family choices and decisions without looking for external validation from outside relationships will be one of the most important decisions you make for your relationship and for your children. It’s ok to do things differently to what your parents and your in laws do, it is not WRONG!
I have spoken for years educating women about this, and guess what it really transforms the lives of these women. It is as if sometimes women need to be given permission to lead and empower their own family. It is so important that women begin to step into powerfully creating their family unit according to THEIR values and ideals. The world is different to what it was even 5 years ago and as such you will make different decisions.
Guess what! If you are not stepping up to this and you are making your decisions with family influences then you are living in FEAR. Fear affects the health of your immune system and this could be one of the reasons that you are sick and tired all the time.
Stepping out of fear is not always easy and yes it can have consequences however they are much better than the consequence of regret later in life when we realise we have not parented in the way that was true to us.
I want to leave you with one final thought – if you are waiting for someone to give you permission or tell you that you are amazing and that you have everything that you need within you to make the BEST decisions for your family then there you have it I just told you.
You are the best gift and decision maker for your family so get to it and drop all the influence and start creating the legacy and memories for your family that YOU WANT. It’s OK, your way is NOT WRONG, it is just different!
If you need some extra support physically at the moment and you are feeling overwhelmed reach for my Stress Drops and Immune Boost Drops and take then 4xdaily. These may help you nourish and support yourself while you work through your feelings of indecision and fear.
If you need to feed your mind and soul some positivity and some reassurance, check out my “I am, personal inspiration meditation.” I find that this audio is the most powerful in helping women who are stuck with indecision.
If you need any help with this, please reach out! I do this every day and I would love to help you feel confident in your decisions, contact me directly on TOLL FREE 1800 244 449.
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